Sexy (and Safe) Support for Lymphedema

6 Sep

Sexy is usually not a word that comes to mind when you think lymphedema. Compression garments. Pneumatic pumps. Bandages. Accessories like these are not likely to be spotted in Vogue’s Fall Fashion Preview.

But last weekend, I met a woman who can make any lymphie feel attractive – and improve their lymphatic flow – by starting with one of the first things they put on in the morning – a bra.

When you have lymphedema or are at risk for developing lymphedema, it is suggested that you avoid clothing or jewelry that restrains lymphatic flow. One of the biggest flow offenders? Underwire bras. The wires, intended to support and shape the breast, can dig into lymphatic vessels, encouraging the buildup of lymphatic fluid in a limb.

So what’s a fashion-forward lymphie to do?

One option might be to let the “girls” go free. At home on the weekends? Absolutely. At the office presenting in front of your staff? Not recommended.

Another option is a well-fitted, wireless bra. Finding a bra – any bra- that fits comfortably is a feat. Finding one without a wire that fits well and looks sexy? That’s gold medal worthy.

Meet the Olympic champion of wireless bra fitting – Ilissa Manes of Peach.

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Ilissa Manes, Peach Personal Stylist, showing me Peach’s bralette line.

I met Ilissa at a recent “Peach Party” where she introduced me to a revolutionary approach to bra shopping. Imagine that you could bra shop from home, receive a custom fit and send the bra back for free, if you don’t like it. That’s Peach.

(Before you ask – No, I am not receiving any compensation from Peach. But when I come across a good product, I try to share it.)

How does Peach work?

Stylists like Ilissa will either come to your home to measure you or they will talk you through measuring yourself via an online chat service such as Face Time or Skype. And Peach doesn’t just measure your width and cup size and call it a day. Peach has a 10-point measuring system that is designed to help provide you with the perfect-fitting bra.

Here’s the bonus. Peach has a line of wireless bras that not only feel good, they look good too. Some of the styles even offer well hidden pockets to hold your post-mastectomy prosthesis. I prefer the bralettes – designed for – ahem – less well-endowed women. Each design has an elegant style, more feminine than most other brands on the market.

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An assortment of bra styles on display at the “Peach Party” I attended.

Thanks to Peach’s new technology and customer service approach, there is no need to accept anything less than a spectacularly supportive bra that makes you feel attractive too.

How much does Peach cost?

The consultation and fitting are free. The price points for Peach’s various bras range from $30 to $75. Not inexpensive. But as you consider your bra budget, remember all those ill-fitting bras stuffed in the back of your second dresser drawer.

Good news – Ilissa has agreed to offer a special discount of 10% off the purchase price for all orders made within the next 60 days (by November 4th, 2016), if you mention Lymphedema Diary or my name, Britta Vander Linden.

Most importantly, no matter where you lingerie shop, consider the cost of developing or worsening your lymphedema. Ensure that your bra is “lifting its weight” as a partner in your health. Impeding your lymphatic flow with bras that pinch and bind is not a good investment.

Sound Peachy?
If you’re interested in learning more about Peach, you’re welcome to contact Ilissa directly at Ilissa.peach@gmail.com. Visit her website by clicking here.

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The ladies and me (far right) showing off our Peaches! A bra that looks and feels good to the lymphatic system sure does make you smile!

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Summer and Lymphedema: Relax and discover

31 May
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The departure board at Dulles airport, waiting for my flight to Paris.

Memorial Day in America is a solemn occasion, but it marks the unofficial start to summer in the United States. As most Americans shed heavy clothes and head for the beach with their family and friends, those of us with lymphedema brace ourselves…and feel isolated.

Our enemy – heat – has arrived.  We scour the stores (unsuccessfully) for summer pants that aren’t cropped or in some other way designed to reveal our compression stockings and swollen legs.  We seek shelter in air-conditioned rooms.  We hope and pray that our “summer swelling” will go back down when the cooler temps return in the fall.

Lymphedema can make us feel like a prisoner in our own bodies.  Especially in the warmer temps.  This summer – try not to let it.

It’s hard to believe that growing up (pre-lymphedema), summer was my favorite season.  But I didn’t love summer because of the heat.  I loved it because summer was freedom.  I could do what I wanted with my time.  Be with my friends.  Practice with my synchronized swimming team.  Go out on dates. Go to the movies.

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A Snow Day….for Your Legs!

24 Jan
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Little me enjoying the white stuff after the Blizzard of ’79. Now THAT was a snow day.

Thanks to Winter Storm Jonas and the nearly 30” of snow he left in his wake, I and millions of others along the east coast have been holed up in our homes for 36 hours and counting.  

With nowhere to go and a new book awaiting me on my Kindle, I decided to give my legs a snow day too.  No compression stockings.  Bare legged.  A break from the normal 16 hours a day spent cooped up in tight, thick nylon-spandex, from toes to tummy.

What a glorious day!  Toes wiggling.  Thighs rubbing against cozy Cuddl Duds softness.  No pinching, pulling, or squeezing. Freedom!

Don’t wait for a “Snowmaggedon” to give your legs a day off.  If you are able, try letting  them “air out” for a day, a day of freedom, while still maintaining lymphatic flow.

Some suggestions:

  • Take a load off.  Limit the time you spend standing.  Keep your legs elevated above your heart as much as possible.  The natural effect of gravity will facilitate lymphatic flow.  When cooking and preparing meals, try sitting on a stool or chair.  Logically, spending significant time on your feet without compression is not recommended.

  • College Living Essentials Zero Gravity Perfect ChairKick your feet up.  Literally.  Find a chair that lifts your legs up while taking pressure off of your back.  Watch a movie or read a book while compression-stocking-free.

  • Hydrate your legs.   Pampering your skin is a luxury you don’t have while confined to compression stockings; so take advantage of this time.  Every few hours, apply lotion to your legs, working it in with upward strokes to encourage lymphatic flow.  And don’t forget your feet!  I recommend Eucerin Smoothing Repair for Dry Skin or Medi Night Creme.

  • sock2Wear cozy socks.  Let your feet experience what normal feet do – the luxury of soft fabric directly against the skin.  Choose a style of sock that does not bind at the top, cutting off lymphatic flow.  Diabetic socks are made with this in mind.  Non-binding socks made by Sockwell (pictured right), Soft Fit and Softop are available through Footsmart.com or Amazon.

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The Top 5 Things I Never Thought I’d Do with Lymphedema…But Did.  And So Can YOU.

1 Nov

Getting lymphedema feels like your GPS has led you to a dead end in front of a precipice that drops ten thousand feet. There’s nowhere to go.  No way out. And there’s no way to get back home.

You’re suddenly stuck in a body that won’t work the way it used to. You can’t do the things you used to be able to do. And you wonder how many other things you eventually won’t be able to do.

Having lived with lymphedema for 17 out of my 40 years, I have come to a decision: There is nothing I can’t do.

I have busted through my dead end. Jumped off the cliff. And I encourage you to jump with me.

There are so many things I thought I’d never be able to do when I got lymphedema, and yet I have done them.

Why didn’t I think I could do these things? Sometimes I let doctors and medical professionals put up the walls. Sometimes I built the barriers myself.

The fact that I have accomplished these things has given me hope.

Here are the Top 5 Things I Never Thought I’d Do with Lymphedema…But Did.  If I did them, so can YOU: Continue reading

Tip #6: For Women Only — Lymphedema and Yeast Infections

28 May

Although June 21st is the calendar start of summer, Memorial Day (in America) marks the unofficial start. For the average person, the season means fun, sun and sandals.  For those of us with lymphedema, it can mean swelling, sweat, and praying for September to come early.

When you are a lymphie, heat is a four letter word.

Putting on and then wearing thick, tight compression stockings all day, every day is challenging enough.  Add eighty-plus-degree-heat and a bucket of humidity, and we are ready to volunteer for the crew of ‘Ultimate Survival Alaska.’

For women (like me) who must wear full-pantyhose compression stockings, the most unpleasant hazard of the summer heat can be yeast infections.

Yeast infections are not listed as a side-effect on stocking product materials.  Neither is your regular doctor likely to warn you about them, because (GROAN) the medical profession lacks focus and funding on our field of study.

Yet I assure you, yeast infections and pantyhose compression stockings go hand-in-hand.  Yeast thrives in warm, moist places, causing a fungal infection resulting in itching, redness, swelling, burning and a discharge that looks like cottage cheese.  Summer fun, it is not.

So what can you do to avoid developing this uncomfortable medical condition on top of an already uncomfortable medical condition?

  • Go crotchless.  
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    Juzo’s Soft open crotch compression stockings (no, this is not a picture of me!)

    Victoria isn’t the only one who knows this secret. Some manufacturers, for an extra fee, can remove the crotch from stockings.  Juzo offers this as a regular option in their Soft product line.  Unless Dr. Ruth is on the board of Juzo, one would surmise there was a medical function to this design.

An open crotch promotes a cool, dry and airy — how shall we say….”environment.”  Don’t negate these positive effects by wearing tight pants or synthetic panties.  In hot and humid weather, skirts and cotton panties (or none!) are the way to go.  In addition, be sure to change out of wet swimsuits and gym clothes immediately after a workout.

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Tip #5: How Many Compression Stockings Should You Purchase?

29 Mar

If you have been following my recent tips, then you know where to buy compression stockings, what to look for in a stocking dealer and which kind of stockings are right for you.  Once you are ready to make the purchase, it is time to decide how many stockings to buy.

If you are like me and come from the shopping school of “When you find something that works, buy it in every color,” you may have to adjust your purchasing habits.  Compression stockings are expensive and they do not last forever.

Stockings are meant to be worn, washed and worn again.  If they linger too long in your dirty clothes basket, the fibers begin to deteriorate.  But a life of coming home from work and doing laundry every day is pretty depressing – and not always possible.

So the number of stockings you purchase depends on your budget limitations as well as your lifestyle preferences.

Here are five stocking lifestyle profiles.  See which one fits your budget and lifestyle the best.

One pair of stockings can get awfully lonely.

One pair of stockings can get awfully lonely.

#1 The Optimist
If you have the time (and inclination) to wash stockings every night, then potentially you could buy just one pair.  But I wouldn’t recommend it.  Having only one pair of stockings leaves little drying time after washing – and zero room for error should your stockings get damaged.

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Here are a few pairs of my stockings at rest on my drying rack. If you own only a few stockings, be prepared to stick to a regular washing schedule.

#2 The Obsessive Compulsive
The minimum number of stockings I recommend is three.  Two of the three pairs are for regular wear (interchangeably every other day).  The third is to be kept as a spare and worn only in case of emergency.  An emergency is when one of the first two have been damaged and are no longer wearable.  An emergency is not when you are too tired to launder the other two pairs.  Beware that having only two pairs of stockings in the rotation means you have to stick to a daily or every-other-day washing routine.

This is me a couple of years ago, after running a 5k. It sure was nice (for me and everyone else) to have a clean pair of stockings to change into.

This is me a couple of years ago, after running a 5k. It sure was nice (for me and everyone else around me) to have a clean pair of stockings to change into.

#3 The Athlete
If you are very physically active, consider buying four pairs.  Two for regular wear, one for exercising and one for emergency use only.  With the exception of swimming, all exercise should be performed while wearing compression stockings.  If you can afford the expense, then you will enjoy the convenience of having a fresh pair of stockings to change into after going for a run or taking in a yoga class.

Fashionista

Once, I branched out from beige/black and tried a “platinum” colored stocking (pictured). I felt like an extra in the movie Avatar. Don’t let that deter you. Pursue your inner Stocking Fashionista.

#4 The Fashionista
Beige can get old real fast.  Luckily, stocking vendors have caught on and now offer garments in a variety of shades.  If you want to add color to your legs, then factor that into your budget.  I get a lot of use out of black stockings during the winter, in addition to beige-colored stockings.  That means I order about twice as many stockings in the cold months as I do in the warmer weather.

The Hoarder

While this overflowing drawer of stockings may look like compression stocking heaven, resist temptation. Don’t hoard.

#5 The Hoarder:  Ordering in Bulk
I’ve had a recurring nightmare about my favorite compression stockings being discontinued.  I wake up in a cold sweat, refreshing Juzo’s product website until I fall back asleep.  If you win the lottery, you might be tempted to stock up on your stockings.  Resist.  For two reasons.

One, stocking return policies usually extend only 30-to-90 days from the date of purchase.  If you crack open a pair that you have been hoarding for six months and discover an issue with the fit or have some other issue, you may have difficulty securing a replacement or refund.

Two, compression stocking technology is constantly improving.  The style you are in love with now might be even better in a year’s time.  The stockings I first donned in 1998 feel like sandpaper compared to the updated version I wear today.  Over time, improvements are made to just about every aspect of the garment.

Earlier this year, Juzo made a change to the waistband of the Soft garment I wear.  No more bulky elastic to thread through the waistband.  Now it’s smooth and fitting.  More comfortable and less conspicuous under clothing.  If I loaded up on Softs, I’d be kicking myself for not being able to enjoy the new model.

 For those of us with lymphedema, compression shopping lacks the fun and spontaneity of regular shopping. Our choices involve more than color and style; our choices directly affect our comfort and health. Making informed purchases of compression stockings should help to eliminate financial or emotional “buyer’s remorse.”

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Tip #4 The Goldilocks of Compression-wear: How to Know Which Stockings are Juuust Right for You

22 Mar

StockingsThis stocking’s too tight.  This one’s too loose.  This one’s juuust right.  Sometimes searching for the right compression stocking can make me feel like Goldilocks.  But finding a stocking that fits well, looks decent and prevents swelling is no fairy tale.  It is possible.

First, you have to learn how to recognize the feel of a good compression stocking fit.  Compression stockings are designed to improve the way the body feels (and operates).  They should make you feel better, not worse.  My happiest days of the year are the days I crack open a new pair of compression stockings.

So what do I feel, when I pull on a pair of stockings that are juuust right?

Relief. Lighter-weight. Energized.

Over the years, I have ordered plenty of stockings that are not right for one reason or other.  These are some of the feelings I experienced, when trying on stockings that were not the right match for me: Continue reading

Treatment Funds the Cure: BrightLife Direct and Lymphedema Diary Team Up for LE&RN in Celebration of Lymphedema Awareness Month

2 Mar

What if I told you that your purchase of compression garments could help the fight to end lymphatic disease and lymphedema?  Well, THROUGHOUT THE MONTH OF MARCH, it will.

When you buy your garments from BrightLife Direct during March 2015, one percent of the total purchase price (on all orders that include the coupon code DONATE) will be donated to the Lymphatic Education and Research Network (LE&ARN).
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Why during the month of March?
March is Lymphedema Awareness month.  That means it’s our time to shine — all 100 million of us worldwide who suffer from lymphedema.  It is our moment to collectively raise our voices and demand funding for research to find a cure, adequate insurance coverage for medical treatment (including for compression garments) and full engagement from the medical community to increase prevention and early detection rates. Continue reading

Coming Soon…a special announcement on Monday

28 Feb
Image via Lymphedema Mavens

Image via Lymphedema Mavens

As I write this post, the actual temperature outside is minus three degrees Farenheit.  Those of us in the northeast United States and elsewhere are anxious to say goodbye to what has been one of the coldest Februaries on record.  But there is another reason to be excited about turning a page on the calendar. March is Lymphedema Awareness Month!

Lymphedema Awareness Month is the time for individuals and organizations around the world to jump up and down, waving their hands to spread the word about our condition to elected officials, the medical community, friends and neighbors.

In celebration of our month, I will be making a special announcement on Monday.  I am really looking forward to sharing it with you.  Stay tuned, or sign up for email alerts to be the first to hear the news.

Until then, so long, February.  Take your time coming back next year.

The Perfect Wintertime Lymphedema Activity

7 Feb
Compression stockings alone do not move lymph fluid.  They help prevent more fluid from collecting.  Only exercise (combined with compression stockings), massage and therapeutic devices can propel lymph fluid through uncooperative lymph vessels back toward the heart, where it belongs.
I do my best to exercise regularly, because exercise stimulates lymphatic flow. In the wintertime, however, it is more difficult for me to get motivated to exercise.Here in New York state, we have had a great deal of the fluffy white stuff this winter. If you live in a similar area, you might want to try an exercise that’s fun, great for lymphedema and sure to keep you moving during these cold months. It’s called snowshoeing.

(Click below to watch the video for a demonstration – or read the transcript that follows – to see how snowshoeing is a perfect lymph fluid-moving wintertime activity.)

Special thanks go to my mother and brother, who gave me the snowshoes and poles as a Christmas present this year.  My family has always encouraged me to try new things as I cope with lymphedema.  You never know what new activity, product or routine could make an impact in the successful management of this condition. I am very lucky to have cheerleaders to keep pushing me past my comfort zone, and to make sure I never lose hope that we all can find a better way to live with lymphedema.

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